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Marriage, and Cohabitation a High Risk Low Reward Proposition...Or You Can Choose The Love of a Waifu

The biggest problem with any LTR or marriage is simply learning to live with another person.  This is especially true if a person has lived alone for a long period of time.  When you live alone you get used to your routine and how you like to do things.  Living with another person is hard and its simply not sexy.  When people live apart they look forward to seeing each other.  The opposite happens when you live with someone. Instead of looking forward to seeing them you look forward to being away from them. When you live with a person, they simply get on your nerves.  This happens more for women as they are governed by the wild swings of hormones.  Men generally do not get such emotional swings, making them generally more predictable.  However men are generally sloppy and have a higher tolerance for a place being dirty or messy.  If you then live with a woman who is the same your house will be a disaster. Human beings create a lot of was...

Masumi's Religious Justification for Multiple Wives

Many people have asked us, Masumi how do you and Max justify your lifestyle?  What about Morality?  How does Max justify multiple wives/concubines?  This is an interesting question.  The question is one of religion. What is religion and why do people ascribe to a specific religion? Religion is when a large group of people subscribe to an agreed upon religious practice.  Generally religion is a top down organization with a single person at the top.  The religious figure puts forth non specific religious teachings that are then interpreted by his followers.  So for us we believe that our life style is supported by biblical teaching.  At least the "multiple wives" part.  Christianity has generally embraced homosexuality so we are also all good there.  The bible is full of references of what is generally considered polygamy.   After Adam and Eve men quickly abandon monogamy and adopt polygamy that is supported an...

Life With Dolls Under COVID-19 Pandemic

Life Under COVID-19 has been a mix of blessings and hardships.  Max has been doing work form home.  Monica has been trapped in Italy since the pandemic started.  After a long time away, Sarah started living with me and Max.  Sarah is a troubled girl,  She struggles with addiction and makes horrible decisions with men. She has survived abuse from her former boyfriends and finally has found some peace living in our little polyamorus community.  Once finishing a solid rehab program, Sarah is sober for almost 6 months.  During this COVID-19 crisis Max and I have given Sarah some badly needed structure in her life.   Every day Sarah is responsible for cleaning the house and taking care of Max's calendar.  She is the third member of this family so she is lowest in rank.  Rank you ask?  Yes we find it helpful for there to be a logical pecking order.  I (Masumi) am the head and Waifu of Max.  I share the master bedroom ...